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17 May 2023 03:04 | 15,449 notes | Reblog

pinkvampyr:

pinkvampyr:

bi women who want to feel happy and comfortable with their attraction to men and lesbians who want to feel happy and comfortable with their lack of attraction to men can co-exist and the way to start is to stop making dumb comments about people’s completely harmless posts about being attracted or not attracted to men.

stop making comments about how it’s also okay to like men and claiming misandry is real on lesbians posts about not being attracted to men

stop making comments on how being attracted to men is a curse and being happy about your attraction to men is stupid on bi women’s posts about being attracted to men

just stop!!!

17 May 2023 02:50 | 41,399 notes | Reblog

mrv3000:

kkglinka:

This is a Moving Forward PSA for everyone using AO3. I am witnessing the results of a culture clash and communication failure. Not a lack of communication, but a misunderstanding caused by changes in fandom culture.

Before fic tagging was common, fics weren’t tagged. You had a pairing, if applicable, an author’s note about genre or general content, and if they were feeling charitable, a vague content warning. There are even a few genres of fic where even vaguely tagging literally spoils the plot and impact (such as horror, psyche thriller, in which the likely content is implicit to the genre). As a result, there is a basic category tag that permits this, as a courtesy to “old-fashioned” writers.

“No Archive Warnings Apply” means the fic is PG13 at worst, probably fluff, totally safe.

“Choose Not to Use Archive Warnings” is the polar opposite. It’s a glaring Enter at Your Own Risk billboard. It means: a shitload of warnings apply but I ain’t telling because this story requires shock value. It’s very important to read the author’s notes for those fics because they might be using that older format from above.

But without the context of fandom culture that generated AO3, it’s understandably easy to conflate the two categories, given their similar wording.

“No Archive Warnings Apply” means there’s no

  • graphic depictions of violence
  • major character death
  • underage
  • rape/non-con

“Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings” =  HERE BE DRAGONS. (implies that one or more of the above exists, but the author doesn’t want to give anything away by tagging)

17 May 2023 02:36 | 384 notes | Reblog

altrdecho:

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XII. The hanged man

I draw tarot sometimes but i dont have the attention span to do a full deck so yknow

Also i like drawing exos very very much thanks

17 May 2023 01:54 | 128 notes | Reblog
huariqueje:
“In a suit bag - Teija Immonen, 2022.
Finnish, b. 1968 -
Linocut , 41 x 31 cm.
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huariqueje:

In a suit bag  -  Teija Immonen, 2022.

Finnish, b. 1968   -  

Linocut , 41 x 31 cm.

17 May 2023 01:41 | 30,082 notes | Reblog

homemadeknees:

judas-redeemed:

sometimes i wish i could grab my childhood self and shake them by the shoulders and say YOU’RE GOOD. YOU’RE WORTH LOVING. THERE ARE PEOPLE WHOSE LIVES ARE MADE BETTER BECAUSE OF YOU. YOU ARE NOT A BURDEN. YOU ARE NOT DAMNED. SOMEDAY YOU WILL CRY OVER SUNSETS AND POETRY MORE THAN YOUR OWN PAIN. I NEED YOU TO REMEMBER THAT YOU’RE GOOD. YOU’RE WORTH LOVING. but i can’t go back in time, so i say it to myself now. because i believe there’s a future version of me looking back on this moment feeling the exact same way.

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let’s free this gem from the tags

17 May 2023 01:26 | 5,240 notes | Reblog

history-of-fashion:

1895 Dress by Laboudt & Robina (France)

silk, velvet

(Metropolitan Museum of Art)

17 May 2023 00:58 | 61,908 notes | Reblog

pretentioussongtitle:

nitewrighter:

I was about to make a post about like… how my family has this lemon tree out front, and one of the funniest things about having a lemon tree is occasionally I’ll be out in front doing whatever and I’ll see someone walking past and quickly grab a lemon off the tree and stuff it in their pockets as quick as they can like they’re shoplifting. 

I was about to make a post about how that’s funny and how, y’know people can have our lemons, it’s not a big deal because the tree pumps them out like gangbusters, but I really can’t make that post without thinking of… them…

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I’ll admit it, OP. As soon as you mentioned your family had a lemon tree in their yard I wanted to ask you how they were dealing with the whore infestation.

17 May 2023 00:44 | 65,058 notes | Reblog

mitzo:

king-ofthetrill:

burn-4u:

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Abolish the comic book industrial complex 🙂

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😬

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17 May 2023 00:28 | 80,290 notes | Reblog

milflaralorvan:

when you see your little kitty walking toward you at a leisurely pace and say “hi baby!” bc you’re excited to see her and she starts trotting a little bit faster ‘cause she’s excited to see you too. that’s what life is all about i think

17 May 2023 00:14 | 15,090 notes | Reblog

dilf-dr-wells:

wait. richard armitage came out!?!?

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i’m so happy for him!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

16 May 2023 20:52 | 51 notes | Reblog

ruttotohtori:

Olin Varustelekan nettisivuilla täysin normaaleista syistä ja siel tuli vastaa tää :D

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16 May 2023 20:51 | 3,624 notes | Reblog

foone:

ADHD in the era of the personal brand is wild.

You get into a thing and hyperfocus harder than anyone ever has hyperfocused. Dozens, hundreds of posts across multiple platforms. You discover things no one knows, you create many new things, you intangibly weave your very digital soul into the threads of this niche thing’s fabric. You are now known as “The Thing Guy” on several websites (despite not being a guy). People screenshot it and crosspost it to other websites, and the comments are like “OH IT’S THE THING GUY AGAIN!”

three weeks later, you drop it like a stone. You still want to do it, but you have no more motivation, and you can’t force yourself to touch it again. Your brain just goes “bored now” and moves on. 

Mere months later someone goes “hey, aren’t you The Thing Guy?”. You are suddenly smoking a cigarette. You take a deep drag. “Used to be, long ago… back in March”. They look at the calendar. It’s halfway through May.